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How I Stalk My Readers (and You Should Too)

Most writers think they know their audience. They don’t.

They assume. They guess. They throw content into the void and pray someone, somewhere, gives a damn.

That’s why their engagement is flatter than a week-old soda.

Smart writers? They stalk their readers. Not in the “restraining order” way, but in the “deep-dive, data-driven obsession” way. They know what their audience thinks before the audience does. And that’s exactly what I’m going to teach you.

Welcome to the dark art of audience research. Here’s how to find out exactly what your readers want—without them ever realizing you’re doing it.

Step 1: Stop Writing for a Ghost Audience

Most people create content in a vacuum. They sit at their desk, overthink every sentence, and wonder why no one cares.

“This post will be a masterpiece!” “I feel like my audience needs this.” “If I post great content, people will find me.”

Reality check: Nobody is looking for your content unless you’ve given them a reason to care.

You’re not Coca-Cola. You don’t “create” demand. You tap into what already exists.

Why Most Writers Get This Wrong

They assume their audience cares about the same things they do. They don’t. People care about their own problems, not yours. They write what they want to write, instead of what their audience needs to hear. They post and pray instead of researching and refining.

So before you write another word, ask yourself: Who actually wants this? And if you don’t know the answer, congrats—you’re writing for nobody.

How to Fix It

Survey your existing audience – If you have an email list or social media following, ask them directly what they struggle with.

Analyze what your competitors are posting – What’s getting traction? What’s sparking discussion?

Look at search intent – Use Google, Quora, and Reddit to see what real people are searching for.

Action Step: If you can’t describe your audience in one clear sentence, stop writing and start researching.

Step 2: The “Comment Mining” Method

Most people scroll through comment sections and ignore the goldmine sitting right in front of them.

Comments = raw, unfiltered audience thoughts. People don’t self-censor in a YouTube comment rant or a Reddit thread. They tell you exactly what they’re struggling with.

Here’s what you do:

Find viral posts in your niche. Not your own. Other people’s. The ones with insane engagement.

Go straight to the comments. Skip the post itself—the real insights are in the responses.

Look for patterns. What are people asking? What frustrates them? What makes them say, “Finally, someone said it!”

Steal like a pro. Take those questions, problems, and frustrations—and make content answering them.

Example of Comment Mining in Action

Viral Post: “Why most content flops.”

Top Comment: “Okay, but how do I fix it without selling my soul to the algorithm?”

Your Next Post: “How to get engagement without begging the algorithm for scraps.”

Bonus Hack: Find long-form rants. If someone takes the time to write a paragraph-long complaint, you’ve struck gold.

Action Step: Find 3 viral posts in your niche today. Dig through the top comments. Write content that directly answers what people are asking.

Step 3: Reverse-Engineer Your Reader’s Brain

Let’s play mind reader for a second.

Your audience already tells you what they want—you just have to know where to look.

3 Places to Spy on Your Audience:

Amazon Book Reviews

  • People write detailed complaints and praises.
  • Example: A 1-star review of a marketing book complaining, “This is just fluff, no real examples.” Boom—your next post: “No-Fluff Marketing: Here’s What Actually Works.”

Quora & Reddit Threads

  • Search “biggest struggle” + your niche.
  • Example: Reddit thread: “How do I build an audience from scratch without being cringe?”
  • Your next post? “How to Build an Audience (Without Feeling Like a Try-Hard).”

Podcast Transcripts

  • Find top podcasts in your industry.
  • Skim episode titles and guest topics. If someone got invited onto a show to talk about it, it’s already a high-demand topic.

Action Step: Go to Amazon, Reddit, or Quora right now. Find one pain point that keeps coming up. Write a post answering it—your audience will feel like you read their mind.

Step 4: The “Steal & Remix” Framework

Originality is a myth. Execution is what matters.

The fastest way to create engaging content? Steal what works and remix it into your voice.

How to “Steal & Remix”:

Find a high-performing post in your niche. (Twitter, LinkedIn, Medium, wherever.)

Break it down: What makes it work? The hook? The format? The storytelling?

Reframe it in your own style.

  • Example: Original: “10 Productivity Hacks for Writers.”
  • Your Remix: “10 Writing Hacks That Saved My Sanity (and Career).”

Pro Tip: Change the angle, not just the words. If someone shares “Why most people fail at writing,” you could spin it into “The 5 Writing Habits That Almost Killed My Career.”

Action Step: Take one high-engagement post and remix it today—same concept, your voice, your spin.

Final Thought: You’re Not Writing for Yourself. You’re Writing for Them.

Most people write what they want to say. That’s why no one listens.

The best writers stalk their audience—not literally, but psychologically.

They know:

  • What their readers struggle with.
  • What makes them rage, laugh, or obsess.
  • What questions keep them up at night.

The difference between mediocre writers and writers who get paid? One writes blindly. The other writes what people actually care about.

The Golden Rule of Engaging Content: If you want people to care about what you write, write about what they care about.

So before you publish your next post, ask yourself: “Did I create this for me, or for them?”

Now go stalk your audience (ethically). They’re already telling you exactly what to write next.

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